Comments on: pregnancy/bleeding?

By: arizonasdesert

arizonasdesert — Sun, 22 Aug 2010 19:25:19 +0000

I am very sorry to hear this! First and foremost…dont think its your fault..4 yrs ago I was preg. w/ my 4th one and I heard the babys heart beat in the first week..I had many doctors say that had never happened before..cause its mostly nothing at 1 week. Any how I did and I was blessed to heat that. the next month I went in to find out just how far along I was..come to fine out I was 5 & 1/2 months. I suffer mirgraines alot but when I am preg. I do not have them at all..but this time I still had them and I could not understand what was going on…I bled from day one..and some women do through the whole 9 months. Anyhow the blood started getting bigger and bigger…still had mirgraines and I just did not feel right. I went back to the dr and they said it was gone. I did NOTHING at all to lose it…NOTHING..I blamed myself and had all kinds of bad thoughts, really bad of me or any women to think…but we are only human. I went and had a DNC..that dr was crazy and did not know what she was doing..I lost mine when it was about 2-3 weeks old..I did not know it was gone..I did not pass nothing at all…so i go to have the DNC and she takes 1/2 of the baby out. I thought i would be better…i never was…came back to my hometown and I got really sick!!!!! To make a very very long story short…they did another DNC and took the chest up out…it stayed in me for 4 & 1/2 months more, passed. I went through hell with all that..but I did nothing wrong. I lost my breathing, my body filled up with infection and was put in the hospital….but one thing I was blessed for..that first week is why I am still here…I heard that babys heart beat in that first week….thats what you have to remember….have faith and keep strong. I know its really really hard but its nothing u did…me either. My baby is home now in no pain and I am blessed for that. Look if you need to talk more please email me at arizonasdesert@yahoo.com
I will be here for you and can talk with you if u need me!
God Bless you and be safe….talk to God about it…your baby is fine and always will be….and u will be ok as well. You will… trust me..I am not the only one on here that has been through this,,its hard yes but you can and will make it…and never forget its not your fault!!!! Blessings…Rachel

By: Samantha

Samantha — Sun, 22 Aug 2010 18:31:30 +0000

My Friend was pregnant and she started to bleed at 12 wks. She was continually in and out of the emergency room until around 16 wks. When she went in to her appointment the doctor couldn’t find a heartbeat or see any movement on the ultrasound. The baby was still inside of her and she had to have a procedure to remove the baby, nothing fell out. That doesn’t mean that this has happened to you. Plenty of women bleed and have good pregnancy. I would try going into the emergency room and see if they can let you know anything. I will pray for you, good luck and god bless!!!!

By: versantly

versantly — Sun, 22 Aug 2010 18:02:39 +0000

CALL THE OB.

By: stephy

stephy — Sun, 22 Aug 2010 17:24:28 +0000

When I was 12 weeks along with this pregnancy I started bleeding a whole bunch. I had just had an ultrasound a couple days before and everything looked great. I called my midwife and she said with the amount of blood I was having it was most likely a miscarriage. She told me to go to the ER. I went there and they checked me and the baby was still in there but the bleeding was still going on and they told me that they thought I was going to miscarry over the weekend. Well the weekend passed and nothing. I am happy to say that I did not miscarry, and to this day they do not know why I bled that much. I hope this this gives you some hope!